Rate: 8
Banged!
i’ve seen any number of captions beneath this video on a variety of Tumblr blogs … and of course, i have my own take.
Everything about this is so right for all the reasons a slow, intimate, lovemaking session, cunnilingus, kissing, loving words, happiness, bunnies, and fairytales, etc., may also be right for others.
What strikes me in every one of the captions i’ve read so far, is that the most commented on aspects of the video are the things He says, like “Don’t fucking move” or how He pins her down and -takes- her.
But … has anyone noticed that despite His clear dominance over her, the way He takes and uses her for His pleasure … He brought her to an incredible, eyes-roll-back-in-her-head orgasm not once, but TWICE, before allowing Himself release?
These are the subtleties i sometimes feel are lacking (IMHO) in discussions about D/s, about Someone using another for their pleasure. While of course there will be times where a Sir (for example) may be the only one to climax, it is never only about Him.
Those people for whom being a Dom/me is part of the very fiber of Who They Are, know that their words, gestures, and the very act of taking Their pleasure itself, is all part of tending to, and expressing affection, acceptance, and desire for, their sub. Not far from Their minds, if ever, are the limits and needs and fantasies and fears of Their pet.
As a sub, this is what i marvel at and am humbled by when i step back and think about the amount of self-control and care that must be ever-present in a Sir when even simply talking with me, let alone when He is using my body, and my submission, exclusively for His pleasure.
Granted, there are as varied a number of ways to be a Dom/me as there are ways to submit.
But for me, as a sub, it’s looking for and appreciating the subtleties behind the activities themselves that give me pause and make me appreciate even more the wisdom, generosity, and affection that a Sir infuses in the interactions we have.
The more i read, explore, and rediscover this part of me, the more i believe that to be truth.
-tdp
